tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post6959074850233677042..comments2023-11-05T03:47:33.710-05:00Comments on Arcane Matters: When One Well-Worn Cliché Just Won’t Do: Anywhere I Hang My Hat/Where the Heart Is/You Can Never Go [There] AgainJenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01233972102418274980noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-60687694802417671872008-01-09T15:34:00.000-05:002008-01-09T15:34:00.000-05:00We're at the exact same place at the moment. I'm n...We're at the exact same place at the moment. I'm not down with commuting, though. I feel like it would take all the fun out of the city for me if I just worked here. <BR/><BR/>Right now we're thinking Burlington VT in 2009. I'm sure we'll change our minds before then, though. Good luck with your plans...I'm so excited for you! <BR/><BR/>Thanks for the comment re: cysts. It's really reassuring to hear of cases where everything was fine.gold starhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00924669074969461237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-69984641063281565272008-01-08T14:25:00.000-05:002008-01-08T14:25:00.000-05:00I meant more like a "layover" than a stopping poin...I meant more like a "layover" than a stopping point. Sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-58912132909077453332008-01-08T14:24:00.000-05:002008-01-08T14:24:00.000-05:00I know I want to move. We've always planned for ny...I know I want to move. We've always planned for nyc to be a stopping point (a long one I guess- it's been 7 years). We don't have money for a big house, but even a little one would be a palace compared to our little Brooklyn apartment! It's just tough to know when/where to go, get new jobs, etc. I'm not sure when it will happen.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-61724667400307489332008-01-07T21:59:00.000-05:002008-01-07T21:59:00.000-05:00I gag a little each time my gf mentions having "a ...I gag a little each time my gf mentions having "a house next year." Or her comments about looking in the fall again for a house. <BR/><BR/>We also miss nature. I catch myself on vacation- when I see actual stars. Oh yeah -those things. We have a storeage unit in CT and pay for parking what people in some places pay for rent. It can be absurd. <BR/><BR/>But then I get scared- will other families look like ours? Where will I get good bread? I would miss the crazy people of new york city, and there are no other people as nutty/eccentric as the people here. I breathe for that.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for the stroller ideas. We did check out the baby planet one at real birth. My rocket science degree (and your blog) has lead me to conclude you live nearby. I am nyc nuts- but not like stalker nuts. Actually- I think we might go back and check that stoller out again.<BR/><BR/>cheersEGGS IN THE APPLEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07273882799927573425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-25121355714836096042008-01-07T16:53:00.000-05:002008-01-07T16:53:00.000-05:00Good luck. although I agree with the keep yoursel...Good luck. although I agree with the keep yourself happy...I'm also of the mind set that people need to start considering their children more (not the case with you girls)<BR/><BR/>I can't WAIT to find out what you decide to do. Whatever it is, it will be the right step forward. <BR/><BR/>The picture. that's a crying shame that it got away.K J and the kidshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11768311213861195548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-60227515493075024762008-01-07T10:01:00.000-05:002008-01-07T10:01:00.000-05:00we're in the EXACT same Quandry.Exact. Our option...we're in the EXACT same Quandry.<BR/><BR/>Exact. Our options are Chicago, Portland, San Francisco.<BR/><BR/>Oh but MAN, that house - SEXY. Yeah. If I had the chance to get my hands on a house like that, I'd move in a blink!Shellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03159550437519461534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-20535479848047992702008-01-07T08:58:00.000-05:002008-01-07T08:58:00.000-05:00I agree w/ the above commenter regarding momma bei...I agree w/ the above commenter regarding momma being happy; the research in that area supports such a claim too. On the other hand, I don't hear you saying you would be unhappy. Change would occur even if you stayed in the city. I've noticed that we all generally measure "what is right" by asking what feels good. Not so sure that's the right question. Change is always uncomfortable. Wishing you the best!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-77587017630888751782008-01-07T07:40:00.000-05:002008-01-07T07:40:00.000-05:00Part of doing what's best for the girls is doing w...Part of doing what's best for the girls is doing what's best for you. If you go with a plan just because it has all pluses in the girls column but all minuses in yours you probably are ulitmately going to do what's worse for the girls because they are going to have an unhappy mother.<BR/><BR/>Remember that saying if mama aint happy aint nobody happy? That is so so true.nuttychemisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14943706242651663377noreply@blogger.com