tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post6421676318232226037..comments2023-11-05T03:47:33.710-05:00Comments on Arcane Matters: Good Grief, The Coffee Maker is Set for 4:45 a.m.Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01233972102418274980noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-12010345471688760102008-04-01T18:34:00.000-04:002008-04-01T18:34:00.000-04:00I have to admit that we have totally fallen into t...I have to admit that we have totally fallen into the once a month or less category. I can't even believe this, and I am cringing as I am writing it-- we just are so busy. We've also been ttc and I had a miscarriage in February, so that definitely put a damper on things (for me at least).<BR/><BR/>This is something I spend a lot of time feeling really guilty about-- it is not that I don't want to do it and not that I am not attracted to my partner, it is just that most nights I fall into bed totally exhausted. We're a lesbian stereotype. :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-51767390252892703642008-03-30T21:58:00.000-04:002008-03-30T21:58:00.000-04:00have you considered getting a part-time babysitter...have you considered getting a part-time babysitter - take the cash you would have spent on Tiffany (hah!) and maybe get someone to come and watch the girls for 3 or 4 hours 3 X times a week or something. This way you don't have to get up quite so early to go to the gym.... it's hard in a way to leave the kiddies with someone else, but once you find someone you trust, i think it has been really good for me and really good for the babies, too. <BR/><BR/>now, about the sex thing... oh yeah. sex. i heard about that. isn't that the thing where two people get under the covers and ... but i can't really remember. sigh.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-39471813250708696022008-03-30T20:46:00.000-04:002008-03-30T20:46:00.000-04:00My wife and I really prioritize having sex one tim...My wife and I really prioritize having sex one time a week. Normally we have intimate time on Saturday or Sunday during our sons nap. <BR/><BR/>We have found that our sex life has become more enjoyable since having kids, even if it is more challenging to plan and much more rushed!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-42769688712799220392008-03-30T20:42:00.000-04:002008-03-30T20:42:00.000-04:00Our anniversary was last week, also 6 years. Well,...Our anniversary was last week, also 6 years. Well, 6 years married, 11 years together.<BR/><BR/>I bow to your early rising and your taking steps to do things for yourself. I feel constantly guilty for not getting out.Briarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04431318790028032416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-20068761448055328602008-03-30T20:41:00.000-04:002008-03-30T20:41:00.000-04:00I feel so sexless that I only 'do it myself' if I ...I feel so sexless that I only 'do it myself' if I can't get to sleep. Surest way to fall asleep. Otherwise, no thanks. I used to be such a sex-oriented being. Maybe I used it all up in my 20's.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-3684421946144309832008-03-30T20:12:00.000-04:002008-03-30T20:12:00.000-04:00OK so based on the above comments, sex means doin'...OK so based on the above comments, sex means doin' it with another person? Just so I don't throw the results off,...right.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-77201668315365429182008-03-30T19:59:00.000-04:002008-03-30T19:59:00.000-04:00Where's the 'once a year or less' option? yeah. m...Where's the 'once a year or less' option? yeah. my sex life is over. lesbian bed death...hello!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-75622318213933223612008-03-30T18:17:00.000-04:002008-03-30T18:17:00.000-04:00I second your comment there... well... sort of. I ...I second your comment there... well... sort of. I don't really mind clicking the "once a month or less" circle... my partner and I both agree that we just don't have time and that "do it yourself," is far easier and the time in between makes it all the more fun when that once a month moment rolls around. <BR/><BR/>Also- it varies. Sometimes it's less than once a month and then there is sometimes a stretch of days or weeks or months that makes up for the whole rest of the year!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-988962265617663341.post-36339761977175652952008-03-30T18:09:00.000-04:002008-03-30T18:09:00.000-04:00I feel ridiculously depressed clicking the once a ...I feel ridiculously depressed clicking the once a month or less. especially since the last time our bed has seen action with the two of us together was valentines day. Is it sad that i just find it easier to "do it myself"?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com